Think About It
Follow Your Heart
By
B.J. Knefley
Follow your heart, is that good advice? I’m sure that you’ve heard it said and perhaps even given it as counsel yourself, but is it sound? Many have followed their heart with disastrous consequences, so why do we still give the advice?
Jesus said that what we value will reflect the heart. If our heart is only interested in our own happiness and the fulfillment of our desires than following our hearts will only be about what makes us happy. How does that work for the other people in your life?
I have met too many people in my life that have followed their hearts only to have them hurt and manipulated. One left their life to follow someone new. Within three weeks they were miserable and wondering how they were going to heal and move on from such a disastrous life choice. Not only did they bring hurt and pain to their own life, but to the life of man others in the process.
In Proverbs 4:23 we’re told to guard our hearts because everything flows from it. The Psalmist prayed that God would give him a pure heart. Why? Can’t we develop a pure heart through our own choices? Interestingly Jeremiah 17:9 states “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” Jesus, speaking about the heart said, “For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander.” (Matthew 15:19) Seems very clear, doesn’t it? Following our hearts will greatly be influenced by the condition of our hearts from the start.
Proverbs 14:12 states, “There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death.” Perhaps our clue is if it seems right, then it probably isn’t.”
In the end, if you’re chasing after fulfilling your heart then you just might be contributing to our own unhappiness and pain. Think about it.